Siłownia Olsztyn
We"ve been together through marriages, births, new jobs, old jobs, and deaths. We"re great friends, yet it takes a lot of coordination to get the six of us together. We finally did it... we scheduled a "Girl"s night out." We met for dinner to catch up on what"s been going on in our lives over the past nine months. A lot had happened. As we chatted, something struck me. I was involved in a "bet you can"t top this" conversation. There was the storm (Sandy) and the havoc it wrecked on my friends" homes. There were deaths, there were sick parents, there were frustrations with children, there were spouses that traveled more than they were home, and there were jobs that were unsatisfying and jobs lost. I felt myself drawn in. How can I top what they were saying? How can I spin the things going on in my life to make them bad? I started sharing. Then I stopped. I realized that it was just as easy to spin the bad things that they were saying to be good as it was to spin the things going on in my life to be bad. The parent that died, died after a mercifully short illness. The job that was lost, turned into a better opportunity. The home that was partially damaged, turned into an income opportunity. The home that was destroyed, was fully covered by insurance. I have no idea why it is so easy to see the bad. To see the problems with what"s going on. I do know, however, that with just a bit of effort it is easy to see the good. And when you see the good and flip it around, you give yourself the chance to smile, the chance to see the opportunities you have and the chance to grow. Take a look at your business. Take a look at the things that you complain about. Take a look at the things that you wish were different because they annoy you. Take a look at the bad things that have happened to you. Now give yourself the gift of shifting your perspective on it. What good can you see? And one more thing... when you find yourself playing "Bet you can"t top this!" top it